Ok that's really enough Irish - you are really just being plain nasty now - give it up - this 'may be' hurting yourself as much or more than others now. As much as I've read, listened to and appreciated so much of your input over my membership time on this forum, I have no understanding whatsoever as to why you need to keep this going! It's so very unhelpful to all!!

With the best of intent, Morgs

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Ok that's really enough Irish - you are really just being plain nasty now - give it up - this 'may be' hurting yourself as much or more than others now

Yes morgs. I will stop. That last post to me was awful, and i repaid the same courtesy instead of restraining myself.

Take care

Let it go my friend or be eaten up with stuff that needn't be there - please let it go! gentle s to you!

Hello Everyone, I'm reposting this here in case, it was missed elsewhere.

Just to clarify, I am the only one who has the decision making authority to ban someone from the forum. I always offer an explanation for the decision to the individual.

If someone is banned and wishes to return, I first need to chat with them to clarify any outstanding issues related to that decision. If we are able to come to some agreement then the individual can return. However, if I feel it would not be in their best interest or the interest of the community, then they will not be allowed to return.

Please remember the moderators are volunteering their time. They are not responsible for explaining or defending my decisions. There is no "behind the scenes" attempt to hide things or confuse anyone.

The recent discussion by Irish is unfortunate. It appears that she has not received my replies.

Please also know that I am attempting to find a resolution.

Shrinklady