Dear About,

I understand the panic you are feeling as this deadline approaches. But something I've begun to realize after 48 years on this earth, whatever decision you make, will be the right one for you. If you stay then you will make that work to your advantage, if you go, you may find an even better T or challenge yourself to grow on your own.

Do talk about all this with T. She will be able to help you sort your thoughts and hopefully drill down to what you really want to do.

Take a deep breath.

Jillann

.sorry again.

Lots of people make decisions about where to live based on romantic relationships that are less serious and committed than a T relationship. Although there is much more of a stigma attached to therapy, and most people don't understand it, I don't see why it should be less significant to your decision.

/sorry.

Thank you so much. I just feel so illegitimate, so guilty. Thank you for your answers, they matter a lot, even if I have to delete my own parts.