FWIW - I can get really triggered when I don't get responses. Here and IRL. I take it as a reflection of my self-worth, etc, etc.

I'm glad you're here.

I feel your pain. It triggers me badly, especially when I post about feeling unheard, and get no/few answer because "haha, that proves my point, I am unworthy of attention or care".

But as the others said, you are not too intense, it's 'just' how forums work.

((((Elsewhere)))))

We have all gone through it. Your post was so heartfelt. It wasn't you.

Big sigh of relief! (bit of a silly smilie, but I have three rabbits...)
thanks

Yes, to everything everyone says here! I don't comment often, but some posts leave me in a reflective space that's just a bit beyond words - and perhaps some posts are just like that, they leave everyone musing. Also sometimes a post will feel like a quiet, private space to me. I'm glad to have been able to share it as a witness, but I feel that if I speak there it might disturb something....

I get frustrated when I want to respond or share something, but I feel inadequate and what I do write and post it then seems insignificant and sometimes unanswered so the vicious circle starts again. It’s not about those of you who articulate informative and heartfelt posts on here it’s about me!

Hi Jones, I never thought of it that way. Glad I asked now!

Hi Chezza, let's try and remind ourselves and eachother that we our never inadequate and insignificant. Keep posting!

love