Okay, forget about forgiving my T for his insensitivity for a minute. What about my H? Could you forgive your H for this? So my H, my 16 year old, who has never had a SO, and I were watching one of her dumb shows on TV. A boy and a girl were drinking and then they started to make out. Clothes were still on. They were just making out. So, my 16 year old, I'll call her Molly, says, oh the police came to my school tne they told us this is date rape. And, my H says, oh come on Molly, she wanted it. My jaw dropped in disbelief. Then Molly reiterates, no, they came to my school and told us that it's date rape. And,my H starts to argue with her again. I just couldn't believe he would tell his 16 year old daughter that. Forget about my date rape issues. I just can't blieve he would say that to her. So I finally stood up and said something stupid like, will you just drop that? And I walked away.

I talked to my daughter about it later. I toldher I couldn't believe her dad toldher that. And she said, yeah, I know, but I know it's date rape.

I'm just so disgusted with my H. WTF?