I really don’t know where to begin but I have to get this out as I feel that right now I am going nowhere. When I started to see you I sort of came reluctantly, not knowing what to expect. As we have progress in out working relationship I noticed some changes in me. I started feeling good about myself. I was looking at myself in a more positive manner. Feelings that I hadn’t felt for years were surfacing, good and bad. You helped me learn to deal with the bad feelings and gave me tools to learn how to speak up for myself.
The problem lies with the good feelings I am having for you. You bring out such positive emotions in me and make me feel like I am really worth something. They were such strong feelings. I was dancing on a cloud. Feelings of happiness, I can do anything. I felt like that once before many, many years ago when I was with the love of my life. That scared me. I immediately fell into a protective mode, as I did not want to feel like that.
Why feel for something you can’t have. I truly believe that I will never get that again not in a true relationship. I haven’t felt like that in so long I really don’t know how to deal with it. When they first started I couldn’t wait for the next session, the last little while I am just scared to go. I am scared to tell you of these feelings, as I know what the final result will be. You telling me you can no longer work with me and leaving. It seems to be a pattern for me. Whenever I start to feel good it is taken away. I do not feel worthy of happiness, and only if it is for an hour I was feeling good talking with you. Now, I am just scared of the whole thing.
I don’t know what to do, and how to deal with all of this. It is very painful and plays in my mind most of the time. My addictions counsellor has told me that I should tell you how I am feeling, because it may help me to better understand myself.
So here I am bearing my soul to you and bracing myself for the inevitable rejection that will follow. I know that I will get through it by myself as I always do.
Kats