I have been in therapy for quite a while now with the same therapist. Our relationship is great and I think she has helped me tremendously.
My last session didn't go so well. I needed to talk about something that frankly I didn't want to talk about. A memory that is just too painful,disgusting and shameful that I couldn't speak it. My t said that it was ok that we would work to get it out and that it wasn't her I was afraid to tell but myself. I thought about it and she was right. I tried to do it at home to myself but I still couldn't form the words. She says to keep trying, but what she doesn't understand is that it makes me feel worse. I get very depressed and all I can think of is getting wasted and death.
I have been trying to keep the death thing quiet really because it scares me and I know it is not acceptable to her. I don't want her to think I'm going to run out and kill myself, but the thoughts are there and sometimes they are so strong that I will do something else to hurt myself.
I know it doesn't really make sense but death feels alot better than pain right now. Does anyone else feel like this?
Thanks for listening to me - a newbie!
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