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Do we ever stop paying?

T tasMember
I have watched my brothers and sisters lives fall apart in their adult years...and now mine is, too.

I cried today for them, for me, wondering how much more will be required of us? How much more from our lives will the ghosts of our past exact from us?

Is it ever over? I am watching my brother completely dismantle his life...and his wife is saying, "I don't understand...if he will just tell me why..." I tried to tell her he doesn't know why...it is like we are acting out these parts...even though we have never seen the script...
or read the lines...

So heartbreaking.
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beccabeccaMember
TAS, I am so sorry. I don't know what to say. I do know you shouldn't have to pay. It shouldn't be on you and your siblings to pay for the sins of others. Why can't people see the destruction they cause for generations. It makes me so angry.

TAS, you seem to me to be a fighter. I know you are tired but please, please, please hang in there. Somebody has to break your family cycle. It looks like the "gods" have chosen you. Keep fighting. I want you to succeed. Take care.

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