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Does your T ever just seem... Flat out wrong?

navymenavymeMember
So...Tonight I brought up this issue that felt like this big complicated thing to me...it was hard to write out, it was hard to say...and it confused the heck out of me...

So, I wrote it, I said it, and expressed my confusion.

And my T just went "Well, that's about this thing"...

To be honest... I just think she's wrong.

I'm open to the idea that I'm the one who's wrong...but it doesn't feel that way.

Maybe I'm just hormonal and crabby at the rest of the week...Usually she's bang on and causes some sort of major enlightenment..

Bleh.

Also... CBT is irritating as hell. I'm sure she's right about it, but it's SO irritating.
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catalystcatalystMember
Ts can be wrong. A good T will not attach themselves to any particular ideas... letting things manifest for their client as they go... or if they really are right gently bring it up at a better time and allow and explore the disagreement in the meantime.

My Ts get it wrong sometimes, and it's been very healing to explore those things with them. Very maddening also because sometimes I have to express a lot of anger. There are still some issues I harp on!

Hope you can talk about this with your T

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