Hi Brokes, thanks for the update. I was wondering how things were going for you with new T. When I started with my T after oldT I also did not experience with him that constant state of anxiety about the relationship. Maybe the grief was overwhelming everything else or maybe without the attachment I just was not so anxious. I don't really know why but it was a relief.
I hope things continue to go smoothly for you with new T. I like that you have discussed what you need to get you from session to session. My T always asks me what I think I will need when he goes away or I don't see him for a session. He makes sure to let me know to contact him if I need to.
Your T sounds really experienced and comfortable with working in the attachment area. I would say from what I've heard so far you are in good hands.
Hugs
TN