For many months, possibly nearly a year, I mostly just kept all my thoughts and concerns to myself. I acted nice to my therapist. I acted as if I agreed with his thoughts most of the time even if I didn't. I was dying inside. Then I decided to try being honest with him again and communicate my concerns about the therapy to him. And the accusations started again. He thought I was being sadistic, having a bad day, whatever. Every time I tried being honest with him, the response was accusative and made me feel bad.
Now I just have a very bad feeling about the whole therapy. I feel like it hasn't been of any use to me and like I've wasted two years and of course also money. My therapist didn't understand me at any point and I feel pretty cynical and untrusting about going to a new therapist. I still feel like I need therapy, though. I'm so jealous, reading about other people's good therapy experiences, how they feel grateful to their therapist, how their relationship with their therapist has been kind, loving and healing. My relationship with my therapist has been quite the opposite. I feel ungrateful and crappy and just want to forget that I ever went to therapy. I also want to find a new therapist but, as I said, am feeling untrusting and cynical.
I'm happy that the therapy is ending but sad that it was a waste of time and money.