15 minuts ago, my mom called. She was asking me if she and my dad could sleep over at my place, as thei were going into the city, next week. i said yes of course, and asked why they were comming to town-.... she then hesitated a bit, but answered: ) "we have been invited over to X`s (that IS MY T!!!) house for a gathering.."(!!!)
what the f??????!!!!!!!
i am comming home just that date from my trip, and will be meeting them here at my place, and my parents will appearently come straight from MY T`s "party" or whatever... i will hate it. that they wont share with me all the suff i WANNA KNOW about my T, the house, the people there, what they spoke of and so in..
what am i suppose to feel about this? is it ok for them to hang out like this??
OK. i TRIED TO BE CALM ABOUT IT BUT I AM SOOOOOOOOO CONFUZED and i have no idea how to react!!! what would you people think of as a proper reaction to your folks involving with your t??? i am totally jeleaous of my own parents and angry at the same time.. yet feeling confuzed and..gosh..i dunno.
WHY DIDNT MY T BRING IT UP THIS SESSION??? he has obviously invited them, to his private home, and he just sat there listening to me, while i actually was talking a great deal about my parents there today! Shouldnt he have brought it up?
...arrg..it happens every time. i really wonder how you would have reacted to such a "boundaries-touchy" stuff..??