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Feeling alone .. .

A annaMember
Hi all.

So my T said me he would be able to see me every 2 week, but instead I could e-mail him between sessions, I am ok with that, well I don’t have any choice .. So now he sent me text one hour before the session and said” .... “ .. What does this mean I am little bit hurt he did not call, . (It the first time he uses text)

I am going through a very hard time, and I did send him mail few days later and he did reply, and then last week then I got a bad news in my work and did the hard think to call him, left a voicemail and he did not call back, I did try to think he was busy sent him mail, what happened no reply, and then 2 days later I sent him another mail and he did reply short,,

Well I am starting to think I did something wrong.. I know I am sometimes heavy client with many problems, but I feel little bit alone in my battle with the world in this moment...
I am not working in this moment and it makes thinks more harder...


Is it best now to see if my T will be in contact in the week? I am so afraid he will forget me ..
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sapphire-bluesapphire-blueMember
That sounds really painful Anna Frowner

I had a T that let me email - but she never had any sort of pattern of response - it caused such a lot of painful feelings as you can't ever decide why you are being left alone...

Can you wait until your next face-to-face session and talk about how this is not working for you? I know that is hard to do.

SB
A annaMember
SB . Thanks so much for your reply Smiler

I did talk little bit about out-office contact , I have rarely use phone-call on my T, about 2 a year, and last week was the second time he does not call back, I know my T prefer e-mail, few years back I did send him text and he said he does not want to use text, .

I wish he would have sent a new appointment in the text, i mean is it ok now to use text or was this one off .. ..

He said I could e-mail him instead of meeting my him once a week, But I am just not there to have 2 weeks apart , and now he called off the appointment ..

My T knows how this is important to me and I am going through hard road, but if thinks were ok this would not be so hard .. I just dont understand why this bother me so much ????? My fingers itch to send him e-mail to see if he is not there for sure, but I am sure that is not fair on him , he has been there in e-mails ,, ogghhhh so hard ..

Should I let him be ? Like untill friday .. i am still thankfull of all my T helps.

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