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muffmuffMember
I think the cruellest thing about my feelings of rejection is my need to deny feelings of acceptance. It is safer.

If I am accepted in any way I can fall, then be rejected.
Therefore, acceptance triggers rage.

I feel it now in here. I felt it the last time I was in here, that’s why I left. But this time I am determined to stay. I am determined to see this rage out until I can take what has always been denied me, and that is my fundamental RIGHT to be loved.


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closeddoorscloseddoorsMember
damn straight..

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It looks like you done a runner from all your T's good points. I can understand how a positive person can make you feel that too. The more positive they are to us, the more we fear their...........rejection. They can threaten us more than any negative person in our life. Its a cruel fact CD, and one worth noting and fighting for. Some times we are so afraid we reject before rejecting. If that makes sense?


makes a whole lot of sense to me. and i think you're on the right path Cool
closeddoorscloseddoorsMember
OMG ... chocolate mint! with coffee? NOW you're talkin'! clean that cave out cuz now i'm coming over! Smiler

i gotta hit the hay. couple of hours of sleep and T tomorrow after a seven month break, which i'm starting to not be real keen on. it'll be good to see him, but not sure brain and feelings and mouth will all connect.

have a good night!

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