Wish I could just wave a wand, sprinkle fairy dust and puff, all the pain would go away! If I could help I would! It's 8.45pm eastern standard time now in Australia and by this time tomorrow Christmas day will almost be over!! Praise the Lord I say 
- it's a most horrid time of year for so many of us There are so many of our community who have to go through all kinds of **stuff** - with family and friends - with hurtful/disfunctional families - without family - without friends or supports - and here we do have a little haven where we just be ourselves and vent among friends who care and understand So whatever happens over these next few days, please no-one hide and hurt needlessly, please let's all catch up as we need to and support each other!
Lots of love
Morgs