I'm thinking about moving away but I'm not really sure when. If I had my way, I'd go this minute. I was thinking about spending the summer with the kids in the area where I want to move so the reality is, I might be away from my T all summer - a first for me. I have fantasies of loving it so much and the kids loving it so much that I just enroll them in school and stay there.
In thinking about leaving T permanently, I thought about how I always wanted to see his house. I read a book by a therapist. One of her patients moved away and asked if she could see the therapist's garden. The therapist said yes. I told my T about this yesterday and his first response was, "I don't have a garden."
Oh, he's a funny man. I told him he has a lot of time to think about it since I probably won't move for a while. It would be hard to do something that he doesn't feel comfortable with even if he said yes. He used to have an office in his house so I didn't think the request would be so out there but I know he wasn't that comfortable with it.I also told him that I would like to go whale watching with him.
We both decided that was a weird request but you can't always explain these things.
