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Hi all...

For you dog lovers out there...here is a great video with a wonderful story behind it. I have a very sentimental attachment to this, as my dog is part Akita and exhibits many of the traits of his Hachiko ancestors. You can see his picture in my first posted thread....at the bottom of the page.
http://psychcafe.ca/eve/forums...080736#3301080736%5B
I cannot express what this dog has done for me...he has literally kept me alive. I don't know what I would do without him...and don't know if he would survive without me. It is a bond like no other...he loves me...no matter what and he never judges me. His purpose in life is to be with me in my journey...in a way that no person would ever be able to replicate.

SD


Hachiko monogatari

In 1924, Hachikō was brought to Tokyo by his owner, Hidesaburō Ueno, a professor in the agriculture department at the University of Tokyo. During his owner's life Hachikō saw him off in the morning, and greeted him at the end of the day at the nearby Shibuya Station. The pair continued their daily routine until May 1925, when Professor Ueno didn't return on the usual train one evening. The professor had suffered a stroke at the university that day. He died and never returned to the train station where his friend was waiting.

Hachikō was given away after his master's death, but he routinely escaped, showing up again and again at his old home. After time, Hachikō apparently realized that Professor Ueno no longer lived at the house. So he went to look for his master at the train station where he had accompanied him so many times before. Each day, Hachikō waited for Professor Ueno to return. And each day he didn't see his friend among the commuters at the station.

The permanent fixture at the train station that was Hachikō attracted the attention of other commuters. Many of the people who frequented the Shibuya train station had seen Hachikō and Professor Ueno together each day. Realizing that Hachikō waited in vigil for his dead master, their hearts were touched. They brought Hachikō treats and food to nourish him during his wait.
This continued for 10 years, with Hachikō appearing only in the evening time, precisely when the train was due at the station. He died on the very spot where he last saw his master and a statue honoring his loyalty was commissioned to commemorate his undying love. It remains on that spot to this day.

Each year on April 8th, Hachikō's devotion is honored with a solemn ceremony of remembrance at Tokyo's Shibuya railroad station. Hundreds of dog lovers often turn out to honor his memory and loyalty.
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Hi IHTS...

Thanks for noticing me.....*she said in her best Eeyore voice* LOL......

I haven't yet said hello to you...but I have been reading. I'm trying to catch up on posting. I'm glad you decided to join up here...your posts have been most interesting.

In regard to your question...I have to say...NO...I do not think people are as loyal and trustworthy as our dogs are.
I think that dogs are a different type of attachment.....often a more profound attachment. It is more difficult, for some people, to lose a beloved dog than it is to lose a close friend.

The attachment/bond to a dog, is very much like the attachment we ascribe to our T's. Unconditional positive regard and attunement is what we get from our T's and the closest thing to that, is the unconditional love we receive from our dogs. It is also similar in that it is a time limited relationship. From the beginning...we know that someday therapy will end, and that we may never see our T again. It is the same dynamic with our dogs...we will most likely outlive them and be the ones to make the end of life decisions for them. In an ideal therapy situation...termination would be very similar. Because of the nature of the relationship...I pour a lot of myself into the time I spend with my dog....just as I do with my T.

I think we give our dogs all the love that we are unable to give to ourselves or any other person.
I wish I could love myself as much as I love my dog. It's a strange thought...but it strikes a harmonic chord for me. It's somewhat sad that I feel this way...but I am grateful that I have my dog to reflect that love back to me. In that way...I see it more clearly. And my dog reminds me...that I do know how to love. Does that make sense?

The Hachiko story is remarkable to me...because he is a dog that has lost his person. This dog developed an enduring bond in a relatively short time. Hachiko was only 18 months old when Professor Ueno died. Isn't that amazing? When you find a dog that demonstrates this kind of connection...you have found something special and rare. And that dog will remind you everyday: "You are loved...you ARE love....I will hold your love and give it to you freely when you need it...forever."

I don't think I know any person that can replicate the kind of love, loyalty, devotion or trust that a dog does so naturally...by instinct, sensitivity and genetic wisdom.

SD

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