Well, I had a reply typed out to everyone and somehow it got deleted. I hate it when that happens :/ GRR.
Anyway, thank you all for replying.
Liese: I never made the connection between the Therapist being on vacation and this thread. When I read that question...I definitely see how there could be a connection to each issue. Thank you for pointing that out. It placed things in a different perspective for me
Thank you.
SomeDays: I really like this:
"After reading everyone's responses here I realised something about myself. I have been here for a couple of years and I have found that the more I have been able to relate, bond and discuss things with my T - the less I have commented here. That is a real sign of improvement and progress for me - so for me my lack of posting is a sign of a good thing."
I think from time to time (when I want to post something) that I need to discuss it with my T first before I post. Sometimes it muddies the water asking others what they think when I know I need to talk to T and settle the issue with him.
Turtle: May I say, I think you are a real sweetheart.
RT: I am glad you are still here and wanted you to know you are in my thoughts
AG: Thank you for helping us understand the different dynamics of this. It really has helped and I have thoroughly enjoyed the conversation and it makes me glad to see that we have all been able to contribute to the conversation with everyone feeling safe to express their experiences
The Kid: "Hats off to you, TAS, for voicing something I haven't been able to put my finger on nor communicate adequately."
I was hesitant to bring it up but am definitely glad I did. I see how much everyone has benefited from the conversation. It's interesting how we bring something up, with ourselves in mind, and yet, it benefits so many others and has been so helpful.
GreenEyes: You have helped me so much. Just wanted you to know
Hollow: SO VERY GLAD YOU ARE HERE!
Monte: I completely understand. I think everyone should be able to come and go as they feel safe to. I do want you to know that I do notice when you are not around
Yaku:
"Have I just cemented my "nutcase" status, here?"
A resounding NO!
AH: Just wanted you to know I am glad you are here, posting
You add 'heart' to the community and it wouldn't be the same without you!
All the best to each of you!