I'm sorry if I offended anyone

turtleMember

Some of you are aware that my T dropped me last month and refused to see me anymore.

I wrote about it here on the forum. I was so touched by the overwhelming response of warmth and support. I know that I missed responding to some people who took the time to write out very thoughtful, caring and informative posts. I tried to just move on and go with the flow but I feel guilty. Just know that if I did not respond to you it was out of a blinding pain rather than anything personal. I was in so much pain over my T.

Still looking for a new one. This week I meet with a new T. She is supposed to be very good at what she does. Came highly recommended. I hope to GOD it works out.

9/15/137:18 AM

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starlightMember

Hi Turtle,
I hope this new T works out for you. I think you have coped remarkably well over the last few weeks.

9/15/139:07 AM

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rebuildingmeMember

Hi Turtle, I'm so glad you are pushing on to find a new T. Good for you!

9/15/1312:23 PM

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turtleMember

Awe thank you starlight and RB!! I am so glad you guys responded. I think I am in a vicious cycle. I started getting paranoid thinking I shouldn't have posted this cause I have been posting so much lately.

Anyway thanks for your responses. I will certainly let you all know how it goes. I hope that she and I connect so much better than the last one.

9/15/131:59 PM

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lieseMember

Hey Turtle,

You haven't offended me at all. I have been amazed at how you are handling the termination.

9/15/137:01 PM

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Attachment GirlAdmin

(((Turtle))) Absolutely no offense, only concern that you are being too hard on yourself. This is a really difficult situation that you are facing with a great deal of courage. You SHOULD be posting and asking for help, I would hate to think of you facing this alone.

9/15/137:04 PM

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sdMember

I think you are doing really well as well after what you have been through and I can't imagine here feeling like you have offended them.

Just keep reaching out and writing and we will be here for you.

9/15/1310:20 PM

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turtleMember

Okay this is wonderful!! I feel all better now. I wanted to sort of slink away and hide because I felt I wasn't giving back what I was giving. But you guys have helped me so much here.

((((Liese)))), ((((AG)))) ((((SD))))) (((DRAGGERS)))
I know I am going to need a lot more help as I search for this new T. I can't believe it's been a month and a half now without a T. I am going through so much and this is just not right. Plus starting with a new T takes time. Ugh....

9/16/133:49 AM

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armoredheartMember

((Turtle))

I'm so sorry to hear you are going through that

I can only imagine how very difficult the transition must be for you. Please let me know if I can be of any support. Hang in there

9/19/134:04 AM

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findingainsleyMember

((Turtle))

I feel your pain. I want you to know you are not alone in this experience. I have been in this place, abandonment by a therapist. It's very difficult for me to talk about. I had been seeing my old T for almost a year and she decided one day that she couldn't do it anymore. Finding a new T is hard, but I know it's possible because after a few here and there testing the waters with some other T's, I landed in a good place. My wish for you is that you will land someone soft, warm and loving too. I know I am new to the boards, but I did want to wish you the best and let you know that I offer my support during this hard time.

9/19/1311:08 AM

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