Conversation went like this:
T: I am going to say something and it will probably piss you off.
Me: Then why say it?
T: You need to hear it.
T: You have hurt your girls.
So, why would someone say something to you if they knew it would piss you off? That is callous and cruel. Business relationship or friendship...you don't say something to make someone angry if you know it will.
I understand that sometimes things need to be said but he knows how I feel about my girls. I felt like he he may as well have went for the jugular.
Then this past session he said no more texting. I have been texting him for six months and he wants me to go cold turkey? He said I could still touch base with him but there was hesitation in his voice when he said that and I haven't because I felt he really didn't want me to.
I don't know. I have asked for two referrals and he said I would need to come to the appt. to get them. Why can't he give them to me by phone?
I feel at this point I can't even see straight. I feel that it was a very mean thing to say and am having a hard time understanding where he is coming from.