Dear forum family members
Many of you will be very aware of some comments i made recently on jd’s thread titled “what to do when (unintentional) hurt happens on forum?” It struck a chord and because i was hurting, rightly or wrongly, i made comments without explanation addressing the *why* i was hurting. By not explaining, and subsequently withdrawing, or trying to, i’ve caused untold and unintended hurt and those not in the slightest involved have looked inward and worried that they may have caused the problem!! I also distanced myself from those who reached out to me on the open forum, thinking that would kill the matter off!

I’m so very sorry for kicking out like a child and not explaining or dealing with the issues at the time. (clearly will have to discuss with T!!)

The problem (or perceived problem) has now been dealt with via PM so please now believe that if i haven’t written to you and addressed my issues with you personally, you are clearly so not involved!

Having said that i’m truly sorry for the hurt i’ve unintentionally caused and hope you will all forgive me – even if it takes time!!

Can i please now ask that we drop this issue on the open forum – there’s no need to post back however if you feel unable to accept my apology and need to take issue with me, i’ll accept it, but would hope if would be private – am already feeling so very small, damaged and embarrassed!!!

It may be a little while before i recover my equilibrium and feel able to join the forum again but that’s my way of coping and not a reflection on any of you – seriously this forum has been a lifeline that i so want to hold on to.

Please take care of yourselves.
Morgs