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I need to type. I wish I could talk to T today. I feel awful. I'm dealing with a cold and I'm down besides.
I found out that my ex husband is engaged. I hate that my kids are going to have to deal with step siblings and a step mother less than a year after the divorce. They've barely gotten used to going in between two houses.
Last week my ex swore at me in front of the kids as I was picking them up. My son ended up doubled over in stomach pain for the rest of the night. I need to work on my boundaries and my strength! Why is it so hard this week?
I wish I could get some encouraging words and a hug from T. I'll just settle looking at the picture I have of her and typing to you all.
I've reached out to a friend too. I have my parents too, but it's not the same as a friend or my T.
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Hi Athenacus...

i am really sorry for the news you got about your ex...I know how hard it can be to deal with, especially when you can't reach to your T. But as the child that parents got divorced and one of them remarried I can tell you that children will deal with the new situation and so will you...it is not your fault...be kind to yourself this week...and i am sending you the hug, i know it is not your T's...i hope you will get that one soon.

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