Trouble is, now they are offering me to live with them and share mortgage payments. They have been bringing it up the past 2 days even though they claim it is for future consideration if I want to. Thing is, when I say OK for the future - maybe - (partly to please them) I get a negative reaction. Needless to say, I feel pressured and anxious by their suggestions since, like I've said, that is not my plans. They are firm in what THEY want to do, after all.
If I quietly suggest that I don't want my life planned out and it makes my feel uncomfortable, my daughter throws it at me that I'm accusing her of controlling me, which is not what I was saying at all.
I knew this confrontation was going to create friction that it ultimately led to and I'm experiencing the fallout from it by my unease in being here and letting them down. I appreciate what they've done by renting out a room to me but it was at their insistence then since I was ready to move a few months ago. I help them by being with their pets when they're not home but that also means that my one cat, who is not comfortable being with nine other cats, is confined to my room.
I'm not supported by anyone else here either, and, in fact, discouraged from relocating by their negative opinions of the city I'm moving to.
I'm sorry but today is a day of misery for me.
I haven't had a chance to read others' messages to seek out like situations but I needed to get this off my chest first.
Thanks for letting me vent.