Hi Morgs,
Nothing wrong on my end beyond holiday season madness and the subsequent physical collapse.

I've been on the forum for about three years now and these lulls are common and don't have a lot to do with the forum, but instead with what is going on in someone's life. Sometimes that problem is with the forum, so it's not a bad question to ask, but in my experience, people not posting is almost always about other stuff in their life not leaving them the time and energy to post, not about them having a problem here. And if there is a problem here, it's because they are finding that reading here can be too triggering. Again, no one's doing anything wrong, someone just needs space. So try not to worry too much.

AG

still here!

just overwhelmed with holiday triggered family craziness. but still here reading and posting when i can.

Hiya, Morglets! Just in case I was one of the ones you were worried about, I will tell you I got triggered by something really random, and also that my h is home and gets (silently) angry/hurt when I post, and also I am pretty much out of contact with my T anymore so just feel generally disconnected from therapy-type stuff and havn't got much useful to offer since I'm in a weird place without him- so I just have a few reasons to be away for the time being. Nobdody has done anything wrong, and as far as I'm concerned everything seems as ok as it can be on the forum, though I haven't been around very much lately, so I guess I don't really know what might be happening...

Big hugs to you- and everyone- miss you all, so much-

BB

No problems here. Just hiding out for a bit. T is on vacation for about 3 weeks. Good question to ask.

PG

Dear ((AG)) ((BG)) ((JD)) ((BB)) ((PG)) there's a certain cadence here eh?
Thank you for responding and for the reassurance - it's a difficult time of year - so many are charged up dealing with their families and so many of us are charged up with aloneness - ain't that life though - too much of something or too little
I hope you all can recoup your energies soon as you are missed
Be gentle with yourselves - Lots of
Morgs

It is slow around here for sure. I haven't posted as much as I normally do due to illness, then holiday busyness and then so much overwhelm personally that I wonder if I'm coming or going some days.

I hope everyone is back and posting regularly soon! You are all missed.

Hi STRM
I guess we'll all just hang in, look after each other and get to know each other more, until those we're all missing are ready and able to come back

frosty - I know you're not going anywhere - thank God What you pouring for my dog ?? How did you know he likes tea?? dududududududu (twilight zone music theme attempt!!) You're too young to know but look it up!!

Morgs

Yikes frosty - that's a teddy?? gotta get my eyes tested again!!!

Draggers I'm sorry you're down but glad you posted - some of us were getting worried - check your PMs We're here for you so plese holler if we can do anything to help and
Morgs

Draggers, ((((((Draggers))))))

I am so sorry that you are hurting right now!!

Please stay in touch with all of us. We are here for you!

I'm here too just not as frequently. One because my son is home from school for the holidays and needs my time and also because I was very unexpectedly knocked down again by oldT who sent me that letter that I am never supposed to contact him again. That took the wind out of me and my Christmas holidays which I was already hurting from. He just has such impeccable timing for slamming me... my birthday, my anniversary and now Christmas. Somehow he missed Easter....

So I am here and will probably be around over the weekend since New Year's is triggering me so badly. I have missed those who have taken breaks but I totally understand.

Draggers, I'm so sorry you have crashed. We are all here for you when you feel you can share. Safe hugs to you and hope you feel strong again soon... because you ARE strong. Hang in there.

TN

Yeah, I'm sort of here. Holidays and this long break from T have tired me out both emotionally and physically.

Big hugs to you, Draggers. You are such a wonderful, courageous person.

I'm here too, thanks for the thread Morgs and the care that you always shed around here. I have worked pretty much since Christmas Day so having trouble fitting everything in and juggling madly ....apart from the memories that have their own agenda I'm afraid

starfish

Draggers .....I left the hug behind

Here's one for you



starfishy

Marsh...sorry to butt in here...but I think MH probably meant to say Morgs, not Marsh...just a guess

SG

Hiya ((STRM Draggers Marsh TN Kashley Starfishy)) So good to see you respond to this thread I know many are posting a little and sure do understand what a triggering time of year this is, but hoped by starting this thread, we could all get together and share/help/vent or just to say "I'm still around" or whatever Also I'm running around the boards trying to catch up and running out of puff
MH - I think your comment was meant for me not Marsh - people who go MIA are missed, whether friend or acquaintance - although you're right as I don't know you you weren't uppermost in my mind Having said that, I'm sorry you are going through such a rough time
Thank you SG for clarifying that - I was a bit confused too!
Got to go for a little while
to all
Morgs

SG.... Ty for mentioning this to me. I do realize I can and do forget some things that I do, and I have slept since that time, so it was quite possible that I did inadvertinly post something. I certainly hope not!!

Hi MH
We're here for you too when you're ready
Morgs

MH,

It is ok, I really wasn't offended.
I actually was more confused than anything.

It did make me do some head scratching to try and remember when and where I had said that to you. No harm has been done. I deleted my post as well so don't worry, accidents happen.

I am sorry that you are having a rough time right now. Please don't stop posting.