Samy-

You are welcome here. I believe shrinklady has said in the past that it's okay for you to post here.

It's an open place to ask questions or state one's process in life....


the things that blow up is disagreements.... we all have them but its what we do with them that counts....

I keep missing you on IM.... I guess I'm awake or on the computer at odd hours. Sorry about that but im sure we will connect soon.

Take care

BW

It's nice we got to talk on IM last night. Disagreements is ok, but it does makes me nervous too.

Samy

Samy,
BW is right, it was just a disagreement and those do happen all the time, how we handle them makes the difference. I'm really glad you posted here. Its a safe place to be heard, and we need as many of those as we can find. Please stay!

AG

It just makes me nervous cuz I mostly think it's my fault for people being upset. But that's sorta my own issues, like our abuser would say we'd be in trouble and upset people if we told, and stuf like that. And I don't do well with people being angry, cuz well, I think they going to start to hit me. That's my stuff also *sigh* it's hard to be 14 sometimes!

Samy

Well the good thing about here is that it's safe as a internet forum can be. Shrinklady, me and others accept you and take time to breathe a little. That always helps.

You didnt cause any trouble annd I know its hard but sometimes it helps to tell those mean messages in your head that the abuse isn't happening now and those people are wrong.

Lots of issues to deal with at 14 but you're doing great It was great talking with you too on IM.

BW