((((draggers))))

I would like to object to your request to delete you or anything you posted! It is all ok and your sweet heart and posts are so wanted here...

Hugs,
jane

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Originally posted by Draggers:
if you could just delete me too i would be grateful so i cant spread even more of my misery.

Oh Draggers, you made me feel so welcome when I arrived, I would hate for you to be deleted : (

Hey LL it's great to see you around these parts again!! Love your "If" thread and am looking forward to participating when I have a little more time.

((((Draggers)))) Hey there sweetie, didn't see the response you took down, but I highly doubt that you "ruined" anything. I can certainly think of answers to those "if" statements that might not be classified as "fun", and I'll bet we're not the only two. So moving the thread means people can feel free to answer the questions more honestly, if they happen to be answering while they are hurting. I'm sorry you are hurting. Please don't feel bad. We love you!!

SG

Hey draggers hon,

didn't see the response neither but I agree with the others, I don't think they were bad or wrong or not funny. Hey, feel free to answer them in anyway you want darl.

I think your bloody great anyway! the answers don't depict how we think of you of course! Love you hon.xxx

(((((((( Draggers )))))))

Well I DID manage to read your replies and I thought it was perfectly fine what you wrote. I just felt really sad because it was so obvious you were hurting. And AG's suggesting moving the thread seemed like a good idea, that way people could answer whatever they felt like without feeling like they had to be all funny haha and without fearing triggering others. So please don't feel bad about it

I hope you're feeling a bit better tonight

LL

Draggers I did not read your replies but am sorry to read that you feel like you must be deleted post wise. Please don't go from here, I've had support and insight from you on another thread elsewhere (another countdown), and know firsthand your compassion and insight.. Many gentle hugs from me JMB,and come back to our little circle on that thread if you feel up to it we are here for you. Many gentle hugs again JMB

((((Draggers))))) Dear one, I am so sorry not to have responded sooner, we have been out and about all day (we went pumpkin picking among a host of other stuff) and have just seen this. There was nothing wrong with what you posted nor did you need to delete. And the only thing you infect people with around here is love and hope.

I moved the thread because the answers were TRENDING in a more serious direction. I actually questioned whether I was overreacting by worrying about but decided better safe than sorry which is why I asked LL if she minded if I moved it. I should have thought to included everyone who had already posted so that it wouldn't feel like you had done anything wrong, I am very sorry to have caused you this distress and hope you will forgive me.



AG

(((Draggers))) I didn't get to read your answers as I have been MIA...but you definitely do not spread misery, but lotsa good stuff! It is a real blessing to know you and hear from you. Promise!

(((((((draggers))))))

I hope you will be in a better space soon, sweetheart...love to you- just take care of you right now and come back to us when you feel able.

Beebs