HIC,
Can I use a book? And tell you that I'm embarrassed to admit this one?
One of my favorite books growing up (still is) was Lord of the Rings by Tolkien. I read it for the first time when I was 14 and have read it 19 times all the way through. I fell deeply in love with Aragorn when I read the book. He's portrayed a little differently in the book than in the movie (although I LOVED Viggo Mortenson in the role) in that he wasn't self-doubting at all. He was a very powerful, experienced and wise, a force in his own right and heir to an amazing heritage. His life was dedicated to overcoming Sauron as his marrying Arwen (whom he fell in love with when he was 20 and his heritage had just been revealed to him, he was 90 at the time of the LOTR) was contingent on him sitting on the thrones of the ancient realms of Arnor and Gondor. His moral compass was incredible and his whole being was dedicated to protecting those under his care. He was the archetypal hero King, deadly in battle, yet with healing in his hands and an amazing gentleness. I think in some ways, he became my ideal of what a man should be.
So if I'm honest, my T is my Aragorn, he is older and wiser, battles the darkness with me, heals me and is protective of me. He also seems a little beyond me, which the King would be.
I'm Eowyn, not Arwen. Eowyn who thinks she's in love with Aragorn, but was really in love with his greatness and the promise he held of greatness. But in the end, it's Faramir that she realizes she loves. But there is wonderful scene in the end of the book that didn't make it into the movie. There is a celebratory feast where her betrothal to Faramir is announced:
quote:
Then Éowyn looked in the eyes of Aragorn, and she said: ‘Wish me joy, my liege-lord and healer!’ And he answered: ‘I have wished thee joy ever since first I saw thee. It heals my heart to see thee now in bliss.’
J.R.R. Tolkien (2009-04-17). The Lord of the Rings (p. 977). Harper Collins, Inc.. Kindle Edition.
Which, if my T carried a broad sword and spoke archaically, is what I think he'd say to me.
Fun question, thank you.
AG