I was married to man who was Muslim and from north Africa, and I am European I met him when I was just 15 y old on holiday, ( I was really sensitive because I had a hard childhood) he lied about everything, his age, where he was from you name it he lied, I thing afterward he wanted a pass (green card) to Europe , he treated me and our now MY son really badly, I finally was able to divorce him about 7 years ago, but it affect it me really badly and my son, ( he has not made any attempt to see his son or contact him in any way, NOT on his birthday or nothing , he still lives in my country) he abused me in any way possibly way ,maybe it was because we were from different culture I don’t know ,and in his culture the wife is submissive and does anything the husband says, , but I haven’t be able to talk really about it , because I haven’t anyone who has been in the same situation as me, I have just started to talk about this when my T went on holiday. its so stupid I just found out he recently married a woman, I know it should not affect me , but I haven’t been able to be with a another man , so scared they will treat me badly like him, but my son tells me sometimes he wishes he has brother or sister, but I don’t see that in the future for me, it enough sometimes to take care of my sweet son, and my self,
But now I see he married a woman from his culture and I know the next step is child, I don’t know why I feel angry, sad, or what , some how I wish I could move on like my ex..