This is very cool SG! I haven't finished the questionnaire but obviously I will to see heheh

Wishing you good luck in finding the right T for you ((SG))

Sorry if this is getting off topic but have you done online therapy before? I haven't but I hope it goes well!!

Edited to add a cutely worded question:
If you were to buy a bird house that required assemble, I would: a) follow the instructions or b) wing it. Clever play on words? Probably not but I thought it was cute.

Also.. I had no matches in 100 mile radius of myself.

Very cool SG!! I wish you luck in your search and hope you find someone who is a good match for you.

Thanks SG!!

I immediately filled out the questionnaire. I couldn't help wondering if my own therapist would pop up. (She didn't).

Good luck in finding someone!

effed

This matched me with someone in the same complex as my T!!!

I'm not switching, though!

That was pretty entertaining One that I got matched with was almost the exact same approach my T does with me! She seems like she would even have almost the same personality as T too! But I'm biased when it comes to Ts and I don't want any other T but my own lol. Maybe if I start to get really anxious and depressed over the summer (probably not but you never know) I'm glad this option is out there

Ummmm....mine said there were no matches in the area, and I live in a metropolitan region...I must be a lost cause

SG,

So cool. Thanks for sharing. Good luck with your search. Did your match turn up anything promising?

I'm with lovingkindness, no matches and I live in a heavily populated area. But I suppose the T's have to have taken the time to register with the site.

Yeah, I bet they have to register with the site and I only had one in my whole area, which is a large metro area as well. The others were all (I'm guessing) online people across the country.

Was I the only one who felt like there were several questions I could pick all of the answers for? It was confusing as hell to try to answer at times. No matter which I picked felt "wrong."

Yaku,

Yes I could have picked more than one answer. And sometimes, I had a hard time distinguishing the difference between two answers. Was one passively written?

I got a little scared that it would match me with OldT. I almost held my breath a little... but then I didn't see her there. PHEW!

SG- I've had bad experiences with online therapy, but everybody is different- I hope that it will really work out for you! keep us posted!

hugs,
BB

Thanks everyone for your responses. I'm sorry I haven't been back, but I haven't been pursuing my T search much at all. One of my results kind of spooked me, in that in reading through his website and watching some of his videos, he reminded me WAY too much of the kind of person I'm usually attracted to...and usually hurt by. So...it's back to T-less land for me, for now.

Thanks,
SG

Don't give up, SG! Try going for the kind of person you are generally *not* attracted to- and you may be very surprised! (hah, at least that is what worked for me!)

Love you,

Beebs

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Originally posted by blackbird:
SG- I've had bad experiences with online therapy, but everybody is different- I hope that it will really work out for you! keep us posted!

hugs,
BB

Yeah, same goes with me, but as you said everybody is different.
Not all the services provided by a Online therapist are bad but some are.
It is really a tricky part to choose the right T