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Hi TAS:

Iam not sure what you are referring to. If another me ever has treated you poorly please let a moderator know and it will be handled quickly and effectively. I personally see no issues with what you post. If you have questions, its your right as a member to ask them. Iam not sure actually what you are asking. If you want to contain your posts into a single thread or a few of them you can do that as well. There is no right or wrong way to post so long as it comes with the forum guidelines.

CTL

((tas))

I have found you to be a great person on this forum to talk to etc. I know sometimes I miss responses or I don't follow up when I meant to do so and because of all the categories etc I tend to lose track of what I am doing here. I hope I have not offended you.

I think Turtle is apologizing because of the generality of TAS's comments.

I think TAS's comments are general because she's feeling a bit like there might be more than one person who doesn't like her or doesn't like her questions. It's my opinion that her post up above WAS in fact directed to everyone in general and no one in partiular.

That being said, If I were TAS, I wouldn't feel judged because of the not providing context comment. I would feel judged because of the comment about not being willing or ready to do therapy. That was a judgment. No one here should make that determination for someone else. In fact, I don't even think a therapist should make the determination. If the client is getting something out of it, even if the therapist doesn't get what it is, then it's worth the money.

(((TAS))) i think you're working hard and i do believe i detect a change for the better in your relationship with your T. think you're doing just fine. and i think your posting here is fine as well. don't sweat it and keep up the good work.

((TAS))
Keep asking your questions!
I find them really interesting. I don't say much myself, because I just don'tthink I am qualified to help. But I do get a lot from reading everyone elses replies.

Thanks guys! You guys rock

((TAS))

I admire your strength, your courage to persevere, and your being open to question why. I have never been offended by anything you have posted.

I have not offered much wisdom in response to your posts, because I do not have any myself. I struggle with my T's boundaries, and have experienced so much grief with her lately.

I once told you to follow your heart, and I that's really all I would continue to say.


Blu

((((Poppet))))

Oh yes I hugged TAS too!

I like you both very much!!

I think this is all a misunderstanding which is so easy to do online without voice intonations and facial expressions.

((((Poppet and Tas)))))

Tas

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((Poppet))

Thank you everyone for your kind words. I am truly sorry for any difficulty this post or any of my other posts have caused you. It certainly wasn't my intention.

All the best,
T.