Russ
I used the term breakdown meaning I gave into my weakness and actually asked someone for help.
I am feeling so lost and unconnected with everything. It's almost like I don't really exist in this world. I walked around yesterday in a fog, in my own little bubble. I have no spark, and really don't care about doing much of anything. Today, I am just anxious, and fearful for mailing my T, and possibly being rejected.
quote:
"you're thawing out from a lifetime of not feeling...of not feeling anger, sorrow and rage. And there's also a conflict raging inside you. Part of you doesn't want to feel any of it, and part of you is dying to get it out. It's gonna hurt a lot for a while. You're heart sick."
This statement totally resonates with me. I haven't had any real emotions for so long, and with every emotion that I start to feel whether it be good, or bad I have pain, and am scared.
JM
You were absolutely right, I rushed to my old beliefs immediately. Even though on Monday I felt assured that T would not leave me, my fear of rejection got the best of me. I was preparing for the inevitable rejection that I am so use to receiving. On a good note T got back to me not too long ago. She was unable to check her mail earlier. I have been reassured that the relationship is real, I do have to start remembering this. I find it hard to believe that someone could actually really care about me in this way.
I will stop rambling, and thankyou all for your support and wisdom.
Kats