does your T ever make offensive comments about you that you despise, but later realize he/she is spot on and that you actually appreciate that they see that in you and talk about it like it's not a big deal?

two things that come to mind for me are: a couple of times he made the remark that i am not "mainstream". this really pissed me off and embarassed me at first. the second thing he said was "who are you"? i'm 51 and i surely think i should know who i am by now.

both of those things really irked me. i never did tell him. does anybody else have things their T told them that initially brought discomfort/anger/embarassment, only to realize at a later date that they were spot on and you actually appreciated the insight?