How wonderful!! I'm jealous! Cherish it!

Great news on getting the X-mas hug!!!!
Congrats!!!!

Daggers, they have fabric softner sheets now with febreeze also for the dryer.

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Lizzy,

I do the same thing with Febreeze to cover up my smokey clothes! Words wonders!

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Ok, maybe it is just me....yikes, I hope it isn't just me, but I really do adore my T in so many ways. Not in a sexual or erotic sense, although he is easy on the eyes, I just think he's the cats meow in so many other ways. The way he intently listens to me, the way he says just the right things at just the right time. The way he makes me sit in silence no matter how uncomfortable I get because he knows it will help me. The way he 1/2 grins at me when I say something witty, the way I feel when I am in the safe place that he has created for me is beyond words. That being said, the thought of hugging him or him touching me really repulses me. I think it would be completely awkward and would likely jump out the window if he even came near me. Is that weird? I am so happy for all of you that have wanted and now recieved hugs from your T, but I'm starting to think I am weird becuase I don't want to hug T. He never sits near me, he has never so much as hinted towards even a hand touch. The closest we ever get is when I had him my check each week and even that after 1 1/2 years is awkward. Yet, I feel so close to this man, so safe with him.

Hals

I am a little worried that LizzieGirls's T asked for a hug. It would have felt safer if he had asked if she wanted a hug. But he asked for one. I think I would call him on it, and ask why and that he must be careful of his own feelings around a client.
Just cos I have been through one therapy experience where the T DID get attracted to me and started acting on it and it all ended in tears.
So be careful. i don't want to spoil the nice feeling of it, but it is a little unusual.