on being demanding

lieseMember

My T tells me that I'm not demanding at all, that he sees me as not feeling entitled to ask for things and always being considerate of his feelings. Why then do I feel or think I am demanding? Isn't asking to see his house and asking to go whale watching with him just about as demanding as you can get? Maybe he has other clients who are a lot more demanding than I am and that's what he is comparing it to?

Because he wants me to ask for things but I feel like I'm this huge boundary crasher who doesn't care about causing him discomfort and only cares about what I want.

4/11/137:43 AM

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lieseMember

((((HI RED))))

Thanks for the validation.

4/11/1312:19 PM

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