Well RT I'm getting a little nervous bec ice waited soooo long to start work w/ the both of them. I do have to say my last T I did call twice during a crisis & once he talked me back down. I guess they won't even do that. I'm hoping one of them calls to explain this.

Is this one of the Ts that sat with you all day a couple of weeks ago? How did that go, btw?

Not all crisis lines send people to your home, I've called before either feeling SU and having them sort of evaluate where I'm at and then talking to me. Even with SI or eating behavior they have helped me cope. They have sent people to my house when I was in dire crisis and it was extremely appropriate and I needed hospitalization (even my T would have sent me). Or, a warmer crisis line when I just need someone to talk to.

If you do need more outside of session contact you may want to look in to finding another T, or another adjunct T if both of them work at the same place and hold the same policies. If you have a P sometimes they will allow patients to call them (mine does). Both of my Ts are "outpatient" and allow calls. Working in an intensive clinic I can see why they may have the boundaries they do - especially with attachment - specific types are clients are more likely to call constantly (not EVERYONE with an attachment disorder, but some). That would be exhaustive and Ts need to take care of themselves. I think it's a little restrictive though, and personally I wouldn't like it.

I hope they can better explain it to you, or you can find a T that has policies you are happier to work with.