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It has happened before, but has been getting more intense with the work I'm doing now. I know others here have expressed having this happen and my T doesn't seem to find it strange at all (in fact, he seems to have been silently observing various pains and sick feelings I was reporting during sessions for quite a while before I ever started wondering whether they might mean something). I also have a close friend who had a lot of this herself, which she shared when I first started wondering whether it was more than usual random pains.

Some of them are things I have had frequently for years, went to the doctor for, and rather than run a battery of tests, they just said, "Um...probably tendinitis or something" and I accepted it, even though it was sometimes quite randomly triggered. Others are things I've had for years and just assumed were "normal" for everyone (um, guess I do a lot of that and am often wrong), but I won't say exactly, because I don't want to trigger anyone. Some are fairly new or at least not frequent and intense enough for me to remember repeated instances.

Anyway, my first question is...since this seems to be a predictable, if not common, re-experiencing of trauma, what is the science behind it?

My second question is...is there any way to help put them away between sessions? I am getting ambushed by them more often recently and it brings other stuff into my mind, which can make it hard to be as functional. I know it's probably not realistic to only have those things pop up when I am discussing flashbacks, etc. in sessions, but that would be ideal.
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Hi there Yaku. Wish I had something helpful to say to you about this, but it's way out of my experience.

But I remember there being a thread from AGES ago, about body memories and trauma - lol just spent half an hour trying to track it down and FINALLY found it, so here's the link. Unfortunately a number of posts on the thread (which I remember as being directly relevant to this issue) have been deleted so it's not as comprehensive.


Can't Figure Out What I Need

Not sure that it's what you were asking, because it sounds like you're pretty familiar with what's going on with you in this respect, but maybe there is something in the thread that resonates. Hope so anyway. Smiler

LL
"The body bears the burden" and any other books by dr robert scaer talk about the science behind the physical impact of emotional trauma on our nervous system and bodies.

It is real, and it can be psychologically based but still real physical pain and stuff.

I have bad allergies when processing trauma. The allergies are real, but the psych-neuro-immune connection is strong and at the heart of it, helping my allergies calm down takes medical and psych treatment.

As far as putting away those things in between sessions? I am struggling with that one too. My T says to try to "notice" and not totally ignore (which I *try* to do) because (as my T says) it is my body trying to tell me something, get my attention. The idea is that if I "pay a small amount of kind attention" to something I feel, and to it just as a feeing and not something I need to understand at that moment, but just endure... then it is supposed to help. However, all the eduring wears me out! And sometimes the physical feelings bring more with them...

I suppose this is not terribly informative, but I do want to say you are by no means alone in this and there is a growing body of science around this.

jd
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However, all the eduring wears me out! And sometimes the physical feelings bring more with them...


Jane, thanks for sharing. The above is exactly how I feel. Luckily, a lot of what I had been experiencing calmed down after we had my last, very long session, all about sharing those memories. I still have some other unresolved stuff, but I'm not having attacks of physical pain and flashbacks often throughout my weeks like I was.

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