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(((Draggers)))
If you are upset because of what I said...well I am not worth it. I'm not perfect and you are a valued member in this community. I am sorry if I offended you. I don't really know what more to say because I never meant for any of this.

Maybe I just am better off alone. Come back Draggers the others need you and you know that you need them.

Hug two

B2W
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if anyone even remotely writes anything that touches a nerve or makes us feel unsafe, then it leads to a myriad of ridiculous reactions.


Oh, draggers, (((hugs))), I think we are all this way around here, to greater or lesser extents. This is why we are in therapy, yes? It's inevitable on a board like this one, where so many sensitive issues are discussed, that we will accidentally trigger eachother from time to time. But I've seen it so consistently demonstrated on here during the year I've been around, that people do truly care, and are willing to hear eachother when that happens. I hope you will not let this keep you away for longer than you need to for regulation and peace. You are valued and appreciated by many.

((((Draggers)))) You're not doing anything wrong, not do you owe us an apology. You have been so severely hurt in the past, that its understandable that you can react this way. And so few of us can really comprehend what you have been through, that it is all too easy to not see the implications of things we say or do for someone who has suffered the way you have. I do not want you adding to your burden of blame. You do not deserve what you already carry and this shouldn't be a place which adds to it. Please go gently and take good care of yourself.

AG
Draggers, do take care and know you're always welcome to come back. in spite of all the terrible things that have happened to you, you turned out to be a beautiful and generous soul. i hope you do come back, but if you don't i wanted to thank you for being a part of my journey. continue to take good care of yourself. you deserve it.

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