im convinced my T cannot help me and i come in there sometimes going bananas. "fuck you you dumb bitch this is a waste of my time...etc"
she feels strongly that she can help me and tells me if i leave it wont be easier elsewhere, that there is no other T that will make everything rosie and that i should not leave. I tell her that i am not looking for a T to make it rosie, i am looking for someone who understands me better and is not afraid of me when i get angry. she says that she does not know anyone who fits that criteria and i should not leave.
i feel like she has me in a double bind. staying is brutal, her empathy is so off sometimes, i go bonkers, its a crap load of work to get her to get me. if i leave, i may be making a huge mistake, if she is right.
she has tried to lock me up a couple of times because ive been so angry but i always talk her out of it. im safe and she is safe...id never harm anyone but i do become verbally very abusive to her. im male btw.
we are meeting with another T together to decide what to do. she says i am going to tell T that we are working together are you on board...im like fuck you we are going to this T to decide if we are we arent telling him that we are....another blowout.
im not sure if this is just too rowdy for it to work. she is sooooo dedicated and wants to stick this out, ive thrown everything i have at her and she still wants to work together. im not sure what to do.thank you.