But if I have already been in therapy for two months and I know that there has been some change (albeit, full of other struggles with it)?

Anagum

I did pretty much as RT mentioned. I went on to Zoloft and a month later started therapy. I needed the meds to reduce the anxiety and lift the depression sufficiently to be able to drag myself to T's door!
I'm not sure a month is time enough to know what the meds are doing; In my case I'd say more like 2 or 3 months.
As to knowing if the therapy is working or is it just the meds; well the latter helps with the symptoms and the former helps with the underlying causes I think. It's often quoted that the most effective treatment is a combination of both medication and therapy but that depends on the individual IMHO.

that is one of my worries as well. I have been in counselling for 3 years, just started on meds, but now am frightened that if I "don't feel" how will I be able to talk? Not sure what the answer is!

Same here for me... after the medication kicked in, it was a world of difference for me. I had already been in therapy for a long time. The anti-depressant didn't stop me from feeling. Together with therapy I could move forward again.