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I am writing this on my phone in the toilets at the train station.. This shows h how pathetic i really am or jusr that i'm a mess and reaching out for help. Or at least being able to express how i feel as noone else knows or understands except you guys here. I've had to be strong for work or read stuff everything down further. I come home and cry pretty much every day after work. The job sucks but its not that bad by itself its the fact that it doesnt allow me to see my t and maybe thats why i even dislike the people and havent been able to mske any friends and feel like such an outsider and looser. Reminds me of highschool. Come to think of it remindsme of kindergarden too. The problem is i dont know what to do. I am so worried that even my next job, when and if i find it, wont allow me to see my t. And i feel really pathetic and have been at war with myself over it....the fact that i have become so attched to her. Why cant i just go out and find a new t, one who is more flexible and does evenings?? There is a part of me that just wont let go the more i try to come up with a diff plan she holds on to her even more tightly.. But i dont know how to make this one work. In my field its pretty hard to find a firm that finishes early or is flexible and then it also has to be in an area thats close to my t. I also cnt know before i start the job how flexible they are going to be and then what i quit and try to find yet another job.? Its hard enough even without all these restrictions. i could lie and say i have something important like a course or something but i really hate lieing and im really such a terrible liar. Thanks for letting me vent i ve been so worriec about everything and i had to let it out. I guess i will talk about this stuff with her in 11days. sorry for the incoherent feeling sorry for myself rant. Puppet
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