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Hi audirak

I'm sorry things are so difficult for you right now. Transference is SOOOO hard to deal with sometimes. And the boundaries can be extremely painful. But like SD said, it might be what you NEED, even if it's not what you WANT. I think most of us would agree that talking things through with T is usually the best way to cope. I know for myself that was the most terrifying option. I couldn't see how I would even get the words out. But I did, and it has really helped me accept that this is happening and that T is trying to help me the best way she can.

Good luck to you! Know that you are not alone- this forum helped me a lot and I hope it can help you too. Keep us posted

4/28/126:47 AM

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