Last night in my session I didn't know what to talk about and then my T asked me about my mother which I really didn't want to talk about. Mother's day is always stressful because I don't want to celebrate my mother and I don't want to celebrate myself as a mother. My T keeps prodding me to express some anger at my mother (and family in general) and all I feel is sadness. It feels like my life was ruined before it even started by the people who were supposed to take care of me and all I can do is grieve. I left the session feeling dissatisfied because I didn't really get into anything.
I had a terrible nights sleep and had some really weird dreams and when I was so sad this morning I sent my T an email telling him about my thoughts. He called me when he got it and was very kind. He reminded me that thoughts and feelings were just thoughts and not facts. Then he told me that I could write more or call him again if I wanted to. So a few hours later I called and left him a message and sent an email and I haven't heard from him since. I'm a little worried that what I told him is too awful and he doesn't want to talk to me but that worry is a very faint voice in my head. I think I've actually reached the point that I trust that he was busy and will contact me tomorrow. I still have the thought that he is avoiding me but I don't believe like I used to and I think that is progress.