Jo....and Wiz....I'm sorry both of you have had to go through all of this....especially the stress of it all. I think the stress is worse than any of the procedures.
I too know what it is like. I have to do an endometrial Bx every time I have a pap. It's not fun...and I often put it off for as long as I can. My Dr. hates that. My breasts are not really an issue, since I had a reduction done 10 years ago and don't really have much breast tissue left. My mother had breast cancer...but is in her 7th year without a recurrence.
I've had several other biopsies as well. My liver and kidneys. Also...not fun...and even more stressful. My liver is bad (cirrhotic)...but I don't have cancer...I have Hep C and my kidneys failed as a result of treatment for that.
They..."the mystical they" say...that the liver is the seat of anger/rage. So...maybe it's the anger issues I need to resolve? Hmmm....Even so....I doubt that doing that will be
the cure for HCV. If it were...then everyone would be in therapy...instead of that horrible 2 year chemo regimen that kills everything and leaves you with no resistance to normal ailments.
Because of my HCV status...my hepatologist told me that unless I did something...drastic...and soon, that I had 18 months to 2 years to live, without a transplant. And then he went further to say...that I was not eligible for a transplant unless I dropped at least 100 pounds of weight.
That was a little over 3 years ago. I was in shock...and denial....but went ahead and made arrangements for the "drastic" step I was to take next.
It did almost kill me...but after a week in a coma, 30 units of blood, a second surgery and much resiliency. I am alive to tell you all, this story. It was eventually...a successful gastric bypass, and I have lost 120 pounds and will soon be doing the workup for the transplant list. BUT....I have to go through another surgery first to take out my gallbladder and have a huge hernia repair...both resulting from my bypass surgery. I have had quite a few successful surgeries...but now...I'm really scared.
After a traumatic childhood...it is so hard to surrender your body to such invasion. But we are survivors...it is our job...to do just that....survive. Ya know?
We just keep doing what we have to do....even though we are terrified at the thought. I know it's an extreme longshot to even get a liver...if it comes to that. But what am I going to do? Waste all this good therapy....and just die?
I think not!
Anyway....I am so glad that you are going to be ok. Even if it were the big C...with early detection...endometrial cancer is often completely curable....as is breast cancer.
You'll both be in my thoughts...I am sympathetic to your pain....it resonates to my very core.
SD