really sorry to hear that you feel so bad now.
Same as SG, I never felt like doing SI, but I'm kind of trying to understand where it comes from. I hear that it may have calming effect and I think I can understand, but I agree that this is not the way forward. I recently had a discussion about suicide with a friend and she thought it is only being selfish, harming your friends and family and taking the easy exit. Now that really bugged me. I never felt suicidal (maybe once for a short while), but I understand that it comes from the great unbearable suffering and it is not a bloody easy option to get away from life.
I think you need to talk more to your T about it. You said that she thought it was not present in your life now, so I'm sure she got really worried about you.
When you said you wouldn't let you child hurt themselves, but it is not quite the same thing for you. Well, I would strongly agree with your T that it is very much the same thing. You would strongly react to your child trying to do something harmful, while the child probably would not see the danger. I believe she has to be strong to protect you the best she can, even if you don't like it.
Can you call her or text her when these feelings are getting so strong? Would it be easier to withstand it if you could get connection with her for a while?
quote:Maybe she resents me for that, and this ultimatum is her way of saying, "Don't force me to worry about you because it's not fair to me." So when she says no more cutting what she is really saying is she doesn't want to hear about it.
MH, I don't think that's the case. I don't think that's what she means. Please do tell her about it. I think it is very important, and i don't believe the slightest that she would abandon you for talking about it.