Hugs for you (((RedTomato)))
Sorry that you are in so much pain.
How much time did you have with her before?
Hugs again.

RT: I am so sorry...I truly understand how painful it is as I have been going through the same thing with the Therapist.


Did she tell you the reason why for the decision?
Sending hugs.

T.

((RT)) I'm so sorry.

I'm shocked she didn't say why and did it over the phone. I'm sorry you are in so much pain.

((RT)) so sorry you are feeling so much pain.

You might want to ask her why. At least you would know.

Are you going to meet with her again?

(((RT))) I'm so sorry. Like others, I can't believe this was done over the phone and with no explanation. Not the way to handle any sort of boundary-shift at all.

Did she state a reason during the session on Tuesday? At least find out the reason...can you trust her enough to know she is working or made the decision with your best interest in mind?
You know her better than any of us...so, I don't want to mispeak. I know it is very difficult. I am going through the same thing and it is horribly difficult. I am really sorry for the pain you are in.

T.

(((RT)))
Im sorry you feel so bad. I think you outgrew her & you deserve someone that can fill your needs. Hang in there

C'mon, RT. Hang it there through this. Breathe... We're here rooting for you.

((((RT))))
RabbitEars

RT:

I REALLY like what Adelante said! So True and I second what RabbitEars said.

I am going through this very same issue with the T. I am with right now...I told him I couldn't do this because it was stirring up many things within me (that he doesn't want me...he wants me to go...he doesn't care)... I told him I would have to quit if he was not willing to reconsider his boundaries as far as outside contact...

Maybe things aren't quite the way I would like them but I am not going to STOP talking about this until I can work out WHY I am feeling the way I am...

I hope you don't give up but I think you also know better than anyone else what you need. I hope things get easier for you...I know it is very difficult.

I think what Learning2Fly said about finding support groups...or perhaps even group therapy...

We are rooting for you. Sending you hugs and support

T.

quote:

Maybe things aren't quite the way I would like them but I am not going to STOP talking about this until I can work out WHY I am feeling the way I am...

you are one persistent devil, TAS. you inspire me.

RT, i think if she'd not willing to budge and you're not willing to accept that, then maybe a different T or a consult? that's gotta be pretty tough to sit through those feelings. take care of yourself, and like Adelante and TAS said, you do matter and people do care about you, myself included. take care

L2F...amazing words...so true. When someone speaks of their experience and you can feel what they are conveying...powerful.

CD...thank you...I try to be persistent...but sometimes I lose heart...

RT: Sending you hugs...for the journey...

T.