Bubs who have been loved by their primary carer feel safe, and have no fear of none existence. The carer has nurtured bub with consistent love and attention while meeting all bubbies needs. Bubs soon associate a wet nappy and an empty belly with love. Once their cries have been answered, bubbies are no longer triggered by the fear of none existence, instead they have a sense of security, trust, and happiness. They can give and receive love.

Aged 2-17yrs; from the "No's" to the "OK's," humans gradually become emotionally independent of their carers, and are prepared for the big wild world. Their self esteem is intact, have no unnatural fears, and know how to defend themselves. The world is their oyster! Life will be problematic, but their healthy coping mechanisms will get them by.

Adults will be able to form loving and trusting relationships with others, and connect with their likeness in family and friends. They are emotionally free, and live in a satisfactory emotional state.

Lucky them!