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Ahhh...I get to have a session today!
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I think it's going to be one of those bittersweet one's. I have to talk about CSA healing and our termination. The good part will be if we have time to start reminiscing about our relationship.

Due to my work and school schedule in the next month and a half, I probably won't be able to see T until the end of September or beginning of October. Frowner
My insurance runs out w/her before Nov.1st, so that probably means only a couple of sessions left!
I'm going to miss my T so much!
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Yes it will feel bittersweet. Enjoy the reminiscing. I remember doing this with exT - it was important - I remember reading out what I wrote to her and bringing up the funny things that we said together and what i had learnt from her. We had lots of laughs and some shared tears - which were important.
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Hi All,
Thank you for caring and asking me how it went!
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While I was waiting for T to come out of her previous session, I was looking at my notes and feeling anxious, yet good. T walked her client to the front desk and gave her a hug! I had never seen T give a hug to another client in the waiting room before. I admit I was jealous and secretly wanted that to be me!
Anyway, I had a great session. It was tough at times. We didn't even get to talking about terminating. I felt sooo close to T! I didn't want to leave. We explored some of my family secrets that I recently found out about. She tried to help me put together some pieces and asked me to talk about what I was feeling when she couldn't read me. When I asked T when the next appointment should be, she said two weeks. I asked for a one week due to my schedule. She said that would be fine-what ever I wanted to do. T also disclosed a lot about herself in session (family history), so I believe she took a few extra minutes with me to make up for it.
I didn't ask for a hug even though I desperately wanted one. I'm still afraid to ask for what I need. That's one of those areas I'm going to work on.

I'm looking forward to my session this week! Hooray! I still have a tough homework assignment to get done before then though. Also, my boss doesn't seem too thrilled that I asked off early again this week for an appointment. Oh well...I told my boss I would work late or come in early the day before.

Ok...gotta go to bed now....
Thank you again for caring so much peeps! Love you all!

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