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Hello all,

I just wanted to leave a message here that I have to step away from posting for a bit. I'm finding that until I have a new T, I am triggering myself like crazy to read about T's, and I have to go into emotional hibernation now until I can find a safe place to let all of these bottled feelings out Frowner I will let you guys know when my new T becomes a reality for me.

I have a heartfelt sense of gratitude for all you have done to help me through my termination, and all the support you have given me. Without you guys, I don't know that I would have made it. It seems almost empty to say this in light of how much help you really were, but thank you for everything

I will keep my PM available in case anyone wants to reach me while I'm away. I'll be thinking of all of you and sending well wishes each day

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AH... I think you have been very brave through everything. I cannot imagine how painful it is to be here after leaving your T and then reading about others and their T's while not having one of your own. I remember when I was abandoned by oldT and I would come here for support and it was helpful but it was also mixed with pain because while I did have a T (not my current one), it was not the T I WANTED to have. I felt so hopeless and alone. I believed I would never have another good relationship with a T after what happened. Finally finding my current T helped me to process what happened and to recover from the trauma caused by oldT.

I know how difficult it is to manage what has happened to you and it is even more difficult without a T to help you understand it all. We are here for you whenever you feel you need the support and I do hope that you can also find a new T at some point.

I will keep you in my thoughts.
TN

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