I happened to find this site while researching info on transference. What a find!! After reading many posts and advice, I finally got up the courage to talk with my P about my feelings and it was a fabulously productive session. He handled it professionally and so sensitively. As predicted he knew I was having these feelings and was waiting for me to bring up the topic. I am so glad I did. I feel like a weight has been lifted off of my shoulders and we can go on doing the work that I need to do. Thanks to all of you who post on this site. I will continue to use it for advice. I'll have some input for some of you too.