my T talks about curing me and that therapy can cure someone of their emotional issues. i asked him what he meant and he said that the anger that i feel that takes control of my life will be understood and directed in the appropriate place. he was even more specific in the sense that he talked about my parents letting me down and my being very angry over that. of course there are more specifics but thats the general gist of it.

im wondering, has anyone here felt that they achieved the cure or the solution to their issues in therapy and whats it like on the other side? is there still a trace of a wound but it has no power over you? does it come back?
i guess i find myself wondering how much better it will be or how much different.

the main thing thats bothering me right now is that ive met someone and have started an intimate relationship and this is where my stuff comes out. the woman feels that i act cold and distant and thats me protecting myself but its also pushing away someone that i like.
i certainly dont want to continue doing that since i really like this woman.

thanks for reading and thanks for your input.

have a great day everyone, cured or not.