I have been in t for a very long time now. With this t about 10 years. We have a very good relationship. It is a bit strange, because after such a long time, there is a kind of friendship there.
My t has always been number 1. We have gone through alot and I have improved alot. I guess at this point I am wondering where do I go now? Do I still need to be going there? Inside, I know that I need to talk with someone. I can't deal with life on my own. I have been off my meds for about 2 months now, and I'm starting to feel the effects more and more. I hate that I need to take this crap to feel semi-ok. Not even totally ok. Is this part of why I need to be there?
The past is always ever present in one way or another. Will I ever be able to deal with this? Do I even want to anymore?
I sit back sometimes and wonder about how my life has been and how it will be. All I can see is stress and more stress, depression, pain, flashbacks, uncertainty and just plain messy. Don't get me wrong, I do see the wonderfullness of my grandkids, I do feel the happiness and love that they bring into my life. I do have a good partner -though it be a tough life with us always. So I wonder why if there is happiness why does the awfulness always take the lead? Why do I always feel not good enough? Why do I always find the idea of being dead better than being alive? Why do I still, after all these years, hate myself so much?
I'm not really asking for answers to this stuff, but the question is, do I still need t? Is it a waste of time to go and see my t and just talk about bullcrap stuff that will never change or go away? Do I still need t if I feel like crap or do I just need to pull up my bootstraps and move on?
I know this is a bit jumbled, but I'm not in a good place and I need to know....